Is Age the Real Culprit in Our Feelings of Invisibility?

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Your voice still matters. This was the first day like this after winter. If we choose to accept our identity as a loved, accepted, and complete woman of God, we will rest in the hands of the Master Archer. What will this person think of me?

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Is Age the Real Culprit in Our Feelings of Invisibility?

Repeatedly ignored, not acknowledged in interactions with people While staying with a friend we both went off walking through their local village. It was a great day, the sun was out and it was actually quite hot. This was the first day like this after winter. So, there were people out for walks passing through the village and at times they would start up a conversation with my friend. I would try and join in and this was the interesting thing, although this happened about three separate times and once even while sitting beside a couple at a table cafe, no matter what I said; no one acknowledged my presence. I even walked around and stood directly in front of one couple to say something and still I was invisible. My friend was quite stunned, she could not believe what she was seeing either. Not one person even looked at me, not one directed a comment at me, not one replied to me when I spoke. I might as well have not existed. You could say that these people were being impolite or ignorant. I found subtle energy based interferences acting to prevent people from engaging with me, listen to me or acknowledge me. Over the next few weeks I cleared lots of combinations of these. It turns out that there were rather a lot whose aim was to keep me isolated and secluded. Because where do you draw the line? For you reading this now? How easy is it for you to even just consider the possibility that something hidden and unseen could be acting on you and be responsible for these or OTHER situations happening in your life. I could not agree with you more. On the other hand we have concepts such as cause and effect in common and accepted use if not RAMMED into our consciousness. No effect without a CAUSE. It seems that perhaps we are happy to think in cause and effect terms for just about everything EXCEPT for negative personal or life issues. Just because your brainwashed by science that subtle energy stuff is nonsense then it must be true? Getting rid of the subtle energy CAUSES strangely enough results in the EFFECTS that these were having on my clients no longer happening. Do you want this resolved? If you REALLY do then read this page. I have experienced this phenomena first hand. What would you recommend to deal with this phenomena of invisiblity, disrespect, and never acknowledged? Perhaps is perpetuates it? Thanks for the enlightening post. Definitely energetic sludge or down right assault. Resolving these types of things is in some cases easy in others difficult. I made a decision a while ago to keep developing the technology to a point where I have figured out how to offer resources for people to work with independently on a web site which will in most cases address many of the issues presented on this site and lots of others. I will pass your details onto a client of mine whom is starting to work with others — he can give you a session or more and sort this out. Sometimes I think the explanation lies in the paranormal, or maybe it is just a directive to others from God. I guess that would be the paranormal. Well, at least I have my sense of humor. That comment did not ask any questions or state that you wanted help so I did not presume that you wanted any? Cara, whom left the second comment toward the top asked for help and so did get a response and had these issues addressed and resolved by a colleague of mine. Will post more…but I had to just dip my toe in the water. I can say I am definitely not being ignored and disrespected any more! Kind of at a loss for words on how to describe what happened, but will do it anyway. I worked with Samuel, all via e-mail to clear these areas and the SelfHealingHandbook has been helpful, too. Stay tuned as I get my sea legs on how to describe this life changing experience. This happened recently at work, so I decided to try raising my voice to finish what I was saying, but the other person carried on too, much louder to the point where it was embarrassing. People also seem to keep me at arms length even when sharing hobbies and interests. I joke to my husband that sometimes I feel like Bruce Willis in The Sixth Sense! I get the feeling that people take against me immediately. So, am I cursed with bad vibes and if so, please, what can I do to sort this out. It has been and often still is , protection against people who would do me physical harm in most cases; at least when I was young it seemed ok. It still hurt but I do recall resigning myself to it as if I were a slave like my great, great, great grandmother was. Most times I could actually observe the reason behind such behavior towards me. I speak out with firm accusations tempered with the observation of their behavior and watch those who would treat me so, jerk awake for a moment. Their faces are frightened and, well, full of shame at being thus called out. It provides them with validation for their pre-judgment of me, who they do not know and do not want to know. I am angry for a few minutes and seeing that this same behavior in them, times millions of other humans, makes for a sad, social and spiritual existence in this too short life. To the solace of my husband, my only true friend; to moments of hope that die as would a stillborn child; to writing in rage; to pleading with the deity I KNOW exist within me; to pushing my body, obese from illnesses and too much work even farther that it has the strength to go. I retreat and wonder if this is all there is to the golden years of my life? Has my deity already died and moved on? Have I truly lost not only confidence in my ability to make a living? Create a quality of life I seem to entertain less and less? Perhaps being ignored is not so bad. If it is done long enough, one loses the will to fight or love humanity at all or maybe it just comes down to that silent scream. We sort of this problem by removing the barriers AND also getting rid of what caused the conflicts, confrontations and attacks that led to the barrier induced withdrawal. Diamond March 18, 2010 11:21 am All of my life I have felt inferior and this world treats me like I have the plaque or something. I am not good at making friends or the friends I do have for some reason they do not talk with me any longer. I do not think that I have done anything wrong. People at my job the vas majority of them hardly even say 2 words to me unless they need something. I really do not see my purpose for being on this planet. What is the point? It seems even at social settings, I feel over looked and ignored and is make me mad. Why should even make the effort to make these morons like me and I feel like if they want to talk with me step to me why should I make a fool out of myself. I have a hard time being friends toward people a lot of time they seem to give me attitude and I do not think that I have done anything wrong but mind my own business. The vast majority of my Coworkers I do not talk to them or like them and do not care for a couple of my supervisors either because they seem to have an authority problem. I have been at this particular job for a few years now and have yet to get promoted and often overlooked. I am know that I am highly qualified to do the job but you have people who are supervisors who have less education than myself who are appointed as a supervisor. Well, I am not glad for them at all because that does not have anything to do with me and I could care less. I only care about myself not those other people because they sure do not give a damn about me their actions show it. I wished I had never been born or existed what is the point or purpose. I guess the only way people treat me like I am special if I was rich or something or struck money in the lottery then I guess they would be nice and acknowledge me then because they want some of my money and I would tell them off and were to stick it. I get so angry and jealous because people often ignore me but to talk to others. I hate other people talking to others but snub me like I have a disease or something. My life is so messed up for real. I wished I was perfect and rich and never having ever need God or people. I do not like wasting my precious time asking for help or making a stupid fool out of myself. Diamond, I know your frustration and pain. My Name here is Un because it describes me to a tee: Unacceptable, Uneducated, Unskilled, Unlikable, Unlovable…. I am a very good, kind and generous person. It is the essence of me that is just not acceptable. Rejection has always been inevitable, so now I just keep to myself. You will be in my thoughts. If you still cant make headway with these people then you may need to consider a change of career. If life makes us miserable then we can change our life. I have been ignored, not acknowledged, passed over, etc. My talents or skills have not been acknowledged. I have always encouraged others in my family and my co-workers, but get none in return. I see it as jealousy, but what can be done about it? I have no where to go, I feel sorry for my husband who has to live with a wife who has a bad reputation. My actions confirmed what had already been known that I am unstable and can freak out.. My comments are thoughtfully written, insightful, articulate and civil, but I might as well be writing with invisible ink. I was just venting. Although this problem still exists for me,it does not exist in all areas. Assert power where and when you can, if a subordinate ignores you, fire them or have them disciplined. If you have the right away at an intersection,GO,leave the consequences to the person that disregards you,they will back down every time 20 years-0 accidents and I always hold my ground. I am still ignored, but there are areas where I am not and this makes me feel better. It might be easy to disagree or disprove some of my advice, but its advice and it works. College and next 20 years — became physically attractive, no longer had social invisibility, became outgoing and believed I was an attractive person 3. This has lasted for 8 years now. But over the years other women my age have worked here and have been treated like queens. I started here a fun-loving, open person who looked forward to seeing people every day. Now I ignore everybody except for a polite hello and goodbye, and have only a couple of people out of a department of 30+ people I talk to during the work day. I want to be visible again. Maybe my problem is not invisibility but deliberately being ignored. The few times I tried to be talkative and included made the involved people even more pointedly ignore me in the future. I cannot figure out why I am being treated so differently here than in the rest of my adult like — it is just like high school again. The nonsense at my job continues. I get to observe everything and rarely will anyone bother me. Unfortunately I am in the ignored category at our school department. I am not a bad person but I think some people expect me to socialize the way they want. Few days ago a classmate talked me down while the instructor was teaching. Except being classmate I have nothing else to do with that man. This makes me wonder why would someone waste his time talking about me? Some people work hard to show that they ignore you as if they do not have better things to do. It recently worked as a lady that was talking to me suddenly stopped. Now I see her jiggling with the group I consider hostile to me. There is nothing I can do for example to date any woman we are taking classes together as the group has successfully made them consider me as a pariah. My response: A few female schoolmates are not the only possibility a creator that put on this planet more than 3 billion women has for me for my future partner. I live on cape cod and drove to the water with some fresh smelts and mussels to treat the seagulls. Well I have to tell you that gulls were coming out of the woodwork to this car. Just how invisible does a person have to be to be dissed by hungry seagulls? It hurts my feelings when I have left phone messages or emails and a couple weeks later do the same thing with no results. I do have two friends that call me spontaneously. Also, it has been 7 years since my divorce and I have never been asked out. I look rather nice for my age so I have no idea why I am ignored and invisible. I am a humble, kind, loving person and cannot understand why people treat me as if I do not exist. It is painful, but I cherish my family husband, 3 children and my sister who love me unconditionally without that it would be hard to go on. I was ill for some time so lost touch with friends and distant relatives, but since I have got back in touch I am ignored e. My sister now has adequate care but social services are evasive, I did not do anything wrong and have always been polite. In the end I made official complaints and got in touch with advocates which helped get the care required but has made them all ignore me even more. I get this treatment everywhere else too, even in conversations when I speak, people talk over me. To deal with this I keep myself to myself and take it as it comes I de-sensitise myself to this treatment. It makes me feel unworthy at times to have the attention of others, but I know in myself that I am a good person and keep my dignity. Your tips and comments are welcomed. I wish I could wave a magic wand over all of us to make us as special to others as we deserve to be, because we are all good, kind, and deserving people. I hope you can get some helpful advice from others. You absolutely deserve better! We need to detach from emotions and approach this stuff with a cool rational head — for instance, instead of moping and withdrawing because I was once again ignored and excluded at work, I am looking at myself critically and arming myself to walk out of here and negotiate a great job package elsewhere. And one of the conditions of this job I may have to start my own business is that the people I work with are on the same communication wavelength as me. Hope things go well for you and any life changes you make Ivy ….. What if you stood out all the time? Acknowledge yourself and the people who really count, get them to acknowledge you, not strangers. I think this is more about people being sensitive and feeling invisible. Your voice still matters. Do other things to be heard: write, sing, paint, take a drama class. Getting rid of both sets of energetic crap means you are neither invisible nor attract crap if you are visible. Writing, Singing, painting and drama are all excellent ways to express, heal and have fun … Gud for Spiritual Processing too…. I always feel ignored and unwanted by my friends I tried to change but nothing happened.. I sometimes feel as if im a dumb head I need you to instruct me what to do and how can i get this problem to be solved! Do you want this resolved? I had a near miss a little while ago! Seagulls are one of my most favourite of birds, they are just awesome and so funny! On forums or anything net related my post gets ignored. I have this friend named Justine, He goes with us too. I think I was destined to be alone. How mean the world is to me? My friend asked me what was bothering me and what my problem is. I asked her what might be wrong about me and she said nothing. I apologized if ever I did something wrong to her.. I thought of myself that I might be weird, ugly or what. They are things i have been working on for myself. Instead of trying to work out why people do the things they do and go through judgements and justisfications within your mind, try if you can to focus on the feelings within yourself, staying with these as much as you can and allowing them to express in a safe place and allowing the feelings to give you their understandings and meanings. We have 2 grown daughters together, so we are not kids. My issue is that we had such a horrible marriage and horrible divorce, which happened 11 years ago—so its not like it is even fresh. I was hoping he and I could at least have a civil relationship at work, and I have certainly tried. But he blatantly treats me like I am invisible, and even does this in front of people. It is like he prefers to think of me as thought I am dead. Does anyone have any insight into this immature and totally uncalled for behavior on his part? I recently felt invisible by an ex-girlfriend, and at work where I have lots of great ideas I wanted to share. I feel it stems from the ego. Generally it seems people want to be right or the best given numerous situations. Another possible reason for this anomoly is another ego-driven cause, and that is self-centeredness or selfishness- people being to into themselves and their own world to care. I have seen many self-absorbed types ignore others, and the strange thing is.. This website reminds me of what Esther from Abraham Hicks would say about beating the drum. This website is the opposite of being in the cortex or an extension of God. Obviously, many in here have more power from past lives than they can remember including vows. I would also recommend tapping EFT to remove emotional issues. We need to be conscious creators. It seems I have an uncanny ability to become invisible! People pass over me for others, I am frequently not included in socializing, and I am not acknowledged when I go shopping or to events many times. And I am passed over at work for things. These people sometimes are jealous, building there own egos. Hold you head up high, the world can be a wonderful place, look for the good, create, love, look at nature, be kind, not like those who do not see you. If they do not see you, then they have missed out. Everyone is different, worth knowing. Some people are nice to those who can get them ahead, forget about them. I am not young, but not old either, still I have lived. Enjoy your life, it can be wonderful. Seemed like people did not acknowledge my presence. But then I realised it was me! I just lacked the confidence and motivation to talk to others hence why I was ignored. I realised the people I was talking to that did not make an effort to respond were just a waste of my time. Approach people who care! Many of your comments obviously shows that you lack of faith! In a society that prizes extroverts most western societies do people who are self-contained, speak with a softer voice and have a non-dominant manner are frequently overlooked, shunned and ignored. Disability — you are visibly disabled and others feel uncomfortable in your presence. Did you read it? Hi I'm Clive and I'm presenting some examples of resolving life issues that are beyond the 'norm' to illustrate what is possible in healing terms. I am also using this site to highlight some contradictions as well as assumptions present within healing modalities AND spiritual paths. All is NOT what it seems nor is it as many believe. Browse the pages in; 'Healing Examples Archives+' which have examples in the categories listed.

A lawyer and real estate investor, with knowledge in a variety of fields, she aspires to entertain and inform. Keeping a busy schedule greatly increases your odds of social visibility. Do you often print your feelings. Few days ago a classmate talked me down while the instructor was teaching. This is a fascinating topic. Congrats on a fab article and the book. Buy a new outfit with matching accessories. Of course others loved to be with me because of how well I met to them, but because I was ignoring myself, they also ignored me.